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Christine Olson
received a call December 7, 2005 that no mother ever wants to
receive. Her 29-year-old son, Derek, told her there’d been an
accident and she needed to go to Manatee Memorial
Hospital. It was a Wednesday night, the night her 22-year-old
daughter, Tiffany, and her boyfriend of nearly one year, Dustin
Wilder, would
ride his 2002 Kawaski motorcycle to St. Petersburg to attend the
Quaker State bike meet. Derek received a call at 11:32 p.m.
I got in my car;
Lord knows if I was even dressed praying the entire time “Please
let her be okay.” Upon arriving at the hospital, I was told that
she was not there. I asked them to check another hospital and was
shocked when they said they didn’t really speak to other
hospitals.
Frantically Derek
and I tried to call other hospitals only to find out they do not
release this information. There I stood in a state of panic
wondering where she was and if she was crying out for her Momms.
I asked for
directions to the chapel, but at the time Manatee Memorial
Hospital was under construction and I Could not understand the
directions they were giving me. No one seemed to reach out and
help.
I believe the
security guard (a nice woman) called Florida Highway Patrol
because at 1:30 a.m. they pulled into the parking lot of the
hospital.
I can see it like
it was yesterday. Derek who was standing on my left side
collapsed with his face in his hands.
When law
enforcement approached me, he said, “I’m sorry your daughter is
gone.” When I asked where she was, he stated, “I presume with the
medical examiner but they’re closed. I could call them in the
morning.”
He then handed me
an evidence bag containing her watch, broken earring, toe ring and
lip gloss. That wa s
it!
After that night I
thought something has to change in the way families are notified.
Six and a half hours was just too long. I have found out the
national average is 6 hours. I have high hopes of reaching
everyone.
Christine would
learn that, at approximately 7:00 p.m. a car traveling westbound
crossing U.S. 19 in Palmetto had hit Olson and Wilder, who were
traveling northbound. Tiffany was thrown 93 feet and died
immediately, suffering a broken neck.
Wilder, who was
found 78 feet from the crash site, died shortly after the
accident. His parents also could not locate him and were unable
to see him one last time, let alone be with him when he died.
My daily mission is
to make a significant change in honor of my daughter but it starts
with you. Take the time to register today and share this program
with everyone you know.
Olson has high hopes
for a law that could make a difference in the remembrance of her
daughter. “Time is crucial. There is no time to waste”, she
said. “No one should have to go through this. |